Time, communication, love, and a very good therapist have helped us discover the steadiness and the enjoyment in our relationship again, but suffice it to say I now understand why so many couples break up within the first 12 months after welcoming a baby. As I tried to keep up at work, I seen my resentment toward my associate grow. In the numerous conversations we have had since, I’ve come to grasp that his life changed too. He also noticed his workday shortened, his sleep disrupted, his ability to maintain his focus altered.
That’s what causes a 27-year life-expectancy hole …
